Nebraska Family Forum

It is the Mission of the Nebraska Family Forum (NFF) to promote education policies in our state that preserve and protect parental authority and the integrity of the family. In so doing, we will preserve the cooperative and respectful relationship between school authorities and parents, preserve a family-centered community, and provide a well-rounded education for our kids.

Tuesday, January 17, 2012

The Noelle Family: Exceptional Athlete...Exceptional Student

I am a teacher's daughter and was raised with education being very important to my family. I still believe education is very important. A love of education runs in my family. I am a preschool teacher my sister is a teacher, and another sister is a principal. I believe it is important to attend school regularly. However, I do not agree with how far they have taken this truancy law.

I have a middle school child who has ADHD but does well in school. Her success in school can be attributed to many things; early childhood intervention, excellent teachers, love and support at home, and her love of sports. Not just any sport but gymnastics. Her sport. As anyone who is familiar with ADHD in children knows they are stimulant seekers and if you want them to achieve success you need to keep them stimulated. We found that with gymnastics, but unfortunately for us, Nebraska cannot afford gymnastics in their schools so we have to be in a club.

The point I am getting at is my daughter strives for honor roll grades because she does not want to miss gymnastics. For us gymnastics is not just a couple hours a week it is 20 hours a week with competitions as far as Texas. For my daughter this could mean a college scholarship. She is also in band and she is extremely busy.

I just don’t understand why absences related to my daughter’s band competitions, doctors visits (she is required to go every 3 months because of ADHD or she cannot get her medicine), and sick days all count toward the 20 days allowed under the law when these absences are excused. To further complicate our particular situation she misses school for gymnastics. We are careful with these absences because we have to travel. We try to leave as late as we can but it is difficult in winter weather.

It makes no sense to me that her participation in gymnastics is considered unexcused however if she went to a track meet it would be excused. WHY, because Nebraska CAN afford track as a sport? (Not that it matters much since they all count toward possible legal action against my family).

This is frustrating because I believe I am being an advocate for my daughter. We will not let her go to gymnastics if her grades drop so therefore she keeps her grades up because she wants to go to practice. It’s a win win. However, last year I came dangerously close to being handed over to the county attorney with band competitions, gymnastics competitions and traveling, and sick days (including a broken toe). Everyone knows it is difficult to go to the doctor afterschool to get these doctor appointments done. Explain to me how 20 days in a 180 day school year (10%) is enough for children like my daughter?

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AnonymousApril 18, 2012

thanks
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JulieteApril 29, 2012

That is one good way of making ADHD an advantage. I bet there are more ways to take advantage of ADHD. But I do have here 5 tips that you can make use of.
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The Personal Impact of Nebraska's School Attendance Law

We began collecting stories in April of 2011 and will continue to collect them as long as the law is abused. The stories we have collected demonstrate how our community has been impacted by Nebraska's school attendance law that counts all absences rather than "unexcused" absences for purposed of "truancy".

It may seem by the district by district breakdown that the law has impacted Millard Public Schools the most, but it is important to note that the Nebraska Family Forum grew out of the Millard Parent Society and therefore the awareness within Millard Public Schools is longstanding.

Out of the 3000+ cases referred to the Douglas County Attorney last year only 400 came from MPS. For every story collected here it is reasonable to assume that they represent dozens more who are affected who have not written their thoughts in a public way.

Nebraska Family Forum: What we Stand For

Mission:

NFF Guiding Principles:

Family is Key: We believe the family is the single most important element to a child’s ability to learn and be successful in school and life, and parents are the foundation upon which family success rests. For this reason, it’s imperative that the state honor the authority of parents as they exercise their natural rights, obligations, and responsibilities to raise, manage, direct, and educate their children.

Freedom in Education is essential: We believe that flexibility in education, school choice, stimulating curriculum, quality teachers, and innovative education reforms are essential to a family centered education. We support policies that will lead to greater parental influence in education innovation, curriculum, and choice.

Family struggles are a healthy part of life: We believe that the fundamental right of a parent does not cease to exist simply because a parent may fail to be a model parent. Parents often struggle to meet the needs of their children, but this is not in itself sufficient cause for unwanted and unwarranted government intrusion into family life. We join with Father Steven Boes of Boys Town in "proclaiming that not only are there no bad boys, as Father Flanagan taught, but there are no bad families.” There is always at least one person in a family that wants what is best for their children and is willing to ask for and receive the help they need.

Government Intrusion can be Harmful: We believe that the right of parents to raise their children without undue government interference is a fundamental liberty that has long been protected by the Constitution of the United States and is not void upon the enrollment of ones child in a public school. We warn that governments who seek to micro-manage the everyday choices of parents in pursuit prescribed outcomes, will do great harm to the integrity of the family and by extension, the well-being of children and society as a whole.

The Simple Truths

Children have to be educated, but they have also to be left to educate themselves. ~ Ernest Dimnet

Education is an admirable thing, but it is well to remember from time to time that nothing that is worth knowing can be taught. ~ Oscar Wilde

Education is not the filling of a pail, but the lighting of a fire. ~ William Butler Yeats

Education is simply the soul of a society as it passes from one generation to another. ~ Gilbert K. Chesterton

Education is what survives when what has been learned has been forgotten. ~ B. F. Skinner

Education... has produced a vast population able to read but unable to distinguish what is worth reading. ~ G. M. Trevelyan

Every educated person is a future enemy. ~ Martin Bormann

I prefer the company of peasants because they have not been educated sufficiently to reason incorrectly. ~ Michel de Montaigne

In the first place, God made idiots. That was for practice. Then he made school boards. ~ Mark Twain

It is a thousand times better to have common sense without education than to have education without common sense. ~ Robert Green Ingersoll

Much education today is monumentally ineffective. All too often we are giving young people cut flowers when we should be teaching them to grow their own plants. ~ John W. Gardner

No man who worships education has got the best out of education... Without a gentle contempt for education no man's education is complete. ~ Gilbert K. Chesterton

Real education must ultimately be limited to men who insist on knowing, the rest is mere sheep-herding. ~ Ezra Pound

The object of education is to prepare the young to educate themselves throughout their lives. ~ Robert M. Hutchins

The only thing that interferes with my learning is my education. ~ Albert Einstein

To the uneducated, an A is just three sticks. ~ A. A. Milne

Education is what remains after one has forgotten what one has learned in school. ~ Albert Einstein

The philosophy of the school room in one generation will be the philosophy of government in the next. ~ Abraham Lincoln

My mother said I must always be intolerant of ignorance but understanding of illiteracy. That some people, unable to go to school, were more educated and more intelligent than college professors. ~aya Angelou

Dad kept us out of school, but school comes and goes. Family is forever.

I hated school. Even to this day, when I see a school bus it's just depressing to me. The poor little kids. ~ Dolly Parton

True terror is to wake up one morning and discover that your high school class is running the country. ~ Kurt Vonnegut

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